I believe everyone needs to boost their confidence every now and then, especially if we want to be more positive, productive, successful and in line with our goals and dreams.
I have a few different techniques I teach to my clients.
Sometimes others see something we can't or don't' want to see in ourselves. Everyone has a different opinion, take what you can and use it and toss the rest away. Just don't let a negative comment affect who or how you are in this world.
Keep your confidence in tact through it all. Everyone is different and there will always be someone who does not feel or think the same way you do; so for those people what they think is none of your business. Learn to take constructive criticism without letting it affect your being.
Until a few years ago, I couldn't walk out of the house without eyeliner and mascara. Why? Because I was brought up by a mom who wore lipstick and eyeliner until right before she passed, literally. She would not leave the house without it. She couldn't even see to put the eyeliner on correctly anymore and she still put it on.
Having learned this throughout my entire life, I was very self-conscious and vain. When I didn't wear makeup, she would say I looked like a twelve year old boy. Others love me without make up and I don't need it all day, every day.
I don't care anymore but not in a bad way; I don't feel like I need it to be me that's all. It takes learning to love ourselves as we are sometimes and I know, I know, it's not easy but we can do it. If I can do it, you can too.
We're quick to share constant negative thoughts all day long. Negative self-talk is such an issue within us. If we could start patting ourselves on the back, when we do things right, we'd see we do much more right than wrong.
We, this includes me, tend to beat ourselves up when we do one thing we perceive as wrong (even if it's not) and then it makes all the confidence and good stuff null and void. Start paying attention to all the good you put out there into the world.
By reading this article you want more self-confidence and believe you can have it. YOU CAN! Be true to yourself and love yourself as much as others love you. You are a good person; own it!
If you are experiencing any kind of self-esteem issues and need help, give me a call or contact me through my website.
Copyright © 2011 Marion Licchiello-Lenz
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