One of those beliefs is that we cannot be fulfilled unless we are loved and accepted by those who are the victims of our past experiences, that we are too old or too set in our ways to change.
Still another false idea is, "It's a catastrophe if things don't go my way!"
Then, too, there's the self-defeating attitude that to love is to lose, so "I'd better prepare for the worst to happen because it will."
Two more irrational beliefs are, "I have no control over my happiness and I want life to be easy and without hassles; therefore, I'll avoid discomfort or any new commitments."
TODAY I will see each disappointment in my life as a challenge to discover the negative or limited beliefs which keep me from seeing myself as a person of unlimited resources and potential.
Author Unknown --- Submitted by Steven Wingell --- India