I hope you've had the chance to reflect on what you read in the last letter, it is really revealing. I was trying to explain the Fast(in) Ability, and I used a personal illustration of my marriage, and my Fast(in) Ability at that time.
Here are the results of the measurement I did for myself again:
I said I was going to tell you what it means, so here it is:
- This grade showed me that I This grade showed me that I This grade showed me that I This grade showed me that I This grade showed me that I This grade showed me that I HARDLY EVER CONFIRM anything when it comes to matters with my wife. When things happen, I hardly take the time to find out if she is aware of it. I always assume that she knows and there is no need to ask her about it. This really gets her upset.
Dear Child, since I have a lot of BROWN GRADES, it shows that I sometimes use the (6) culture rules in my marriage.
Therefore, my Fast(in) Ability in my marriage is AVERAGE.
Well, it was a real eye opener; as long as I continued to have an average Fast(in) Ability in my marriage, the results I would get would continue to be average.
Now I know why the marriage had some issues; if I had known about my Fast(in) Ability a while ago, those issues would have been solved or even avoided.
I needed to change..............very quickly.
In my next letter, I will tell you what I did.
Try to read this letter again, to make sure you understand it properly.
Remember, your Culture is everything.
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This story is a series of letters written by Segun Cadmus, Manager, HiZen-3 Ltd, a company created to be the Ultimate guide in Culture Management at work and life. Please visit us at: http://www.hizenworld.com for more information about what we do.
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